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Things we own too many of, on purpose.

A running, honest list of what actually earns a place on the founder's desk — pens, notebooks, books, and the coffee ritual that makes all of it possible.

A vividly colored flat lay of mint, blue, and purple stationery and office supplies
Chapter One

Chapter One

Stationery, the socially acceptable addiction

A confirmed collector of colorful pens and post-its explains herself.

No. 01

Muji gel pens, the 0.38

The default. Smooth enough to write fast, thin enough to write small in the margins where the real thoughts live.

Why it's here: no skipping, no ghosting

No. 02

Oversized sticky notes

Regular post-its are for reminders. The big ones are for actual thinking — mapping an article before a single word gets typed.

Why it's here: visible thinking beats invisible thinking

No. 03

A stupidly large pen cup

Big enough that "just one more color" stopped being a lie years ago. It's not clutter, it's a palette.

Why it's here: color-coding is a personality trait now

No. 04

Washi tape, more than is reasonable

Holds nothing together structurally and everything together emotionally. Every notebook page deserves a border.

Why it's here: joy is a legitimate design requirement

A wall of vintage books in red, teal and mustard, stacked spine-out
Chapter Two

Chapter Two

The bookshelf that started most of this

Half research library, half comfort object. Organized loosely by "how often I reach for it," which is the only system that has ever actually worked.

No. 01

Frames of Mind — Howard Gardner

Dense, foundational, and the reason "smart" stopped meaning one thing around here.

Reread when: doubting your own way of learning

No. 02

Make It Stick — Brown, Roediger & McDaniel

The cognitive science of learning, without a single wasted sentence.

Reread when: starting a new research brief

No. 03

The Extended Mind — Annie Murphy Paul

Thinking happens outside the skull. Explains a suspicious amount about post-it dependency.

Reread when: the desk feels too tidy to think in

No. 04

Solving the Procrastination Puzzle — Timothy Pychyl

Short, evidence-based, and somehow never preachy about it.

Reread when: the deadline is lying to you

The Setup

Desk essentials that earned tenure

No. 01

A visible timer, not a phone one

Time feels abstract on a screen you also use for everything else. A dumb physical timer makes it real again.

Why it's here: fewer distractions per square inch

No. 02

Noise-cancelling headphones

Less about silence, more about controlling which chaos gets in.

Why it's here: executive function needs a bouncer

No. 03

A second monitor, always slightly too big

Research in one window, draft in the other. Non-negotiable once you've tried it.

Why it's here: fewer alt-tabs, fewer lost thoughts

No. 04

A notebook that lies flat

Sounds small. Changes everything about whether you actually open it.

Why it's here: friction kills good habits fast

A hand pouring hot water over coffee grounds in a pour-over brewer
The Ritual

The Ritual

Coffee corner, literally

No. 01

A pour-over, not a pod

Five unhurried minutes before the inbox exists. That's the entire feature, and it's enough.

Why it's here: a ritual with a start and an end

No. 02

One good mug, oversized

Fewer refills, fewer trips, more actual reading time.

Why it's here: efficiency disguised as comfort